There is so much to say, but there is nothing to say, because we all have a different understanding of how things work in the world, and that is how it should be. One of my friends mentioned the word Bitul to me, and it is how I operate in this world, especially in the work that I do, not necessarily as a wife and mother.
This is deep stuff my friends, google it and see if you can wrap your mind around it. I just received the most beautiful card thanking me for helping create possibility in their birth experience, and I am so grateful. It has nothing to do with me, skills or tools, it is about allowing the mother to trust, figure it out, and just be, getting out of her own head to feel what is possible.