Structure or Flexibility

We really need both because it is not possible to operate solely in one realm.  We live in a multi-dimensional world, there are two sides to every story as well as everything in between. The only thing we can do is look inward, be straightforward, and keep moving forward.

What am I talking about?

Every situation and person in life.

I am someone that tilts heavily toward flexibility, and it is a little discombobulating to some people.  I figure as life flows and changes, all I can do is be clear and ask if I can also flow and change, and if that is not possible, then I figure out a way to work around the structure.

My gift in this world is that I am fully present.  Most of the world is analyzing yesterday or worried about tomorrow.  No thank you, I prefer to just deal as life moves along, and I know that people that really need structure are not a right fit for me.

On the other hand, I love my schedule, and that my kids have a schedule, so I can work around that schedule with my clients and do the work that I love and that I am meant to do in this world.  I love to be utilized for my skills and gifts, and try my best to avoid when the fit is not right, because then the energy gets wasted, and there is frustration on everyone’s part.

All of this figuring out is what life is about,

So why worry in advance?

All the ups and downs we cannot live without,

So be open to the connection and what is possible,

Give yourself that chance.

Coach Yulia


Vincent Van Gogh

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